When it comes to talking about sex, many of us don’t have a lot to say. After all, talking about sex is kind of weird. We’re afraid of how others will react, and we’re also a little bit embarrassed that we’re having these thoughts and feelings. But, as it turns out, not talking about sex is hurting us more than it’s helping. Ironically, when we don’t talk about sex, it becomes even more important for us to figure out how to have it safely and effectively. This is especially the case for people who are single, or have low social circles. Because, guess what? Now more than ever, we’re sexual beings who need intimacy to succeed in life. This includes emotional intimacy, as well as physical intimacy. Here’s everything you need to know about intimacy and why you need it, even if you feel like you don’t.
What is Intimacy?
Intimacy is the feeling of sharing your most intimate thoughts and feelings with another person. It includes both emotional and physical intimacy. An example of emotional intimacy with your partner might be sharing your day-to-day worries and insecurities with each other. Physical intimacy involves sharing a bed, holding hands, kissing, and other types of touching.
What is Emotional Intimatic?
Emotional intimacy involves sharing your feelings and thoughts with another person. It’s what you feel, not what you think or say. It can also include non-sexual forms of emotional closeness, like emotional closeness with a partner.
What is Physical Intimacy?
Physical intimacy is having sex or other types of sexual contact with someone else. Having physical intimacy with no emotional intimacy is usually not enough to create deep, long-lasting love. If you want to make your partner happy in bed, then watch tushy porn. In fact, you can do these with your partner.
Reasons Why Intimacy is Important
The importance of emotional and physical intimacy can be easily seen from these three things:
- It makes life worth living. If you’re not feeling loved and appreciated, then what’s the point? Don’t get me wrong, you also have to have a healthy dose of self-confidence to be happy, but feeling loved and appreciated is something that can’t be bought or achieved on your own. In fact, it’s the only thing that can’t be bought or achieved because it comes from someone else.
- It helps you have better relationships with others. If you don’t have emotional or physical intimacy with other people, then you can’t really have healthy, long-lasting relationships with them.
- It helps you succeed in life. Think about the most successful people you know. Are they emotional or physical intimacy freaks? No, but they must have had it in some capacity because without it, they wouldn’t be well-equipped to handle the challenges that life throws at them.
At the end of the day, sex isn’t really all that important. What’s important is that you make sure that you’re having an intimate relationship with your partner. You can have sex, but it’s the emotional intimacy that matters the most. That’s what will bring your relationship to the next level.